3 03 2006

Love is beautiful.

If you love a person, you accept the total person with all its defects, because those defects are a part of the person. Love never tries to change the other, but it changes tremendously. If you can love, that will bring a revolution; it brings the revolution that even the footsteps are not heard. Nobody ever becomes alert to what is hapening – everything happens so silently, just as the buds open and flower and no noise is heard. Never try to change a person you love, because the very effort to change says that you love half, and the other half of the person is not accepted – that is the meaning of trying to change, that you say…. I love you but no the way you speak, or I love you but I don’t love your nose. But do we do that?

If we love, we simply love. If love brings change, its okay. If it doesn’t bring change, that’s also okay…..